Thursday, November 12, 2009

School news

Well, the newness of school has wore off for Miles. On his second day of class, they had gym with a male gym teacher. Miles must have thought he was a very scary guy because when he got near him, Miles freaked out. He started crying and I think we all know where this goes.... So when I came to pick him up he was wearing his extra change of clothes.
When I went to take him to school again, he didn't want to go. He was pulling me away from the classroom. I eventually got him inside and playing. He did ok but did not have that happy look on his face. He did not seem to enjoy himself as much as the first day of class. So school right now is on a very trial basis. If Miles doesn't want to go, then I'm not going to take him. I feel very guilty as it is taking my 2 year old and leaving him somewhere.
We had our parent-teacher conference for Olivia last week and she is doing awesome! The teacher spoke very highly of the personal fm and told us that this is something she feels Olivia must have. I'm very happy about this because it was quite the struggle to get the school to agree to it. She said Olivia is much more confident when wearing the fm. Olivia is such a smart and easy girl when it comes to school. It's a relief after dealing with Roland and all his struggles with his learning disabilities.
And speaking of Roland, he is doing much better with his grades. Not good though. They are threatening to take away his IEP. This is a fourth grader who writes at a first grade level. And because he scores highly on tests and is getting better grades WITH accommodations, they want to take all his help and occupational therapy away. His occupational therapist has even stated that he will not make it without the accommodations. I've pretty much been told that if I don't get some sort of diagnosis from the doctor of adhd, add, or something of those sorts that in Spring, he will lose his IEP.
And another worry to add, I haven't heard anything from our disability insurance since August when I filled out the paperwork for our recertification. Ugh, is it summer yet?

Thursday, October 29, 2009

He did it!



Miles made it through his first day of school! I was a nervous wreck and didn't leave the class for the first 30 minutes. Then, I stood outside the room for the next 30 minutes. I left for an hour and tried very hard to keep busy. I came back 15 minutes before the class ended to see how he was doing and he was doing great. Having fun, listening to the teacher read a pumpkin book. As the teacher was passing out the paper pumpkins, he yelled "I want a funkin!!"
Now I just have to survive the next few classes and then maybe
I will be ok with it. My little boy has never been away from me so this is very hard. He's my third child, the baby. He will always be the baby to me!





Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Next wednesday

Miles starts school next Wednesday! I just don't know how I am going to make it through the day all by myself. I'm already having a tough time getting through the day with my other two children in school all day. Miles will only be in class for 2 1/2 hours but he's my baby! How am I going to come back to a quiet house and be alone? I feel like I'm doing the wrong thing putting my baby in school. My other children didn't go to school until they were 3 and 4. Is this unfair? I'm sure he would get along just fine without the early intervention classes. But I really want him to be able to attend preschool next year as having a disability so he can get into the public preschool we have. They have a lottery and disabled children get in without being put into the lottery. Is this being selfish? Help! I need advice from other people!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Toddler group



We got the word last week that Miles will be attending "big boy school" here in just a few weeks! Omg, I knew it was coming but I was just shocked! My little boy will be going to school without mommy 2 days a week, 2 1/2 hours at a time. And he has to take a backpack! It's going to be so hard for me at first. I don't think I'll be able to go home for the first few days. Going home to an empty house will just be too much!
So for those of you who don't know, Miles has been attending early intervention classes once a week since March. It is a parent and child class. Children the
n graduate to what is called "toddler group" which is either 2 or 4 days a week. I chose 2. Toddler group is without parents. It's going to be such a big help with Miles speech and other skills. I know it will be good for him but I have a million worries. Especially about Miles vomiting. I just really hope he doesn't do it at school! I wish he would just grow out of it but it doesn't seem to be happening.
Anyways, thought I'd share the news! Thanks for reading!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Miles at early intervention class

Miles loves school! I'm just posting some pictures. Not much going on here lately. I have an IEP meeting for Roland today. And Miles will be evaluated by the PT because of his toe walking. Other than that, just lots of homework and such. Hope you enjoy these pictures!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Miles loves firetrucks!

Miles got to see all kinds of firetrucks yesterday! It was little boy heaven! He even got to sit in one!
My baby boy is getting sooo big!

This tire is bigger than he is!In a couple years, this kind of behavior will be the cause of awful sibling rivalry!

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Some pictures of Olivia's Birthday!

She turned 6! I can't believe it! This year we had a tea party :)